Original and Catchy

I arrived at the Den of the Secret Nine before any of the other members of the Organization. I wasn't surprised because traffic can be formidable in the Renaissance during the season of commercial orgy. I sat at the regular table and before I'd disconnected myself from iPhone life support, the Duck Man entered and sat next to me.

"I'll tell you my story," he said. "I'll tell you my story and you will sympathize because I can tell by looking at your face that you're sympathetic. You have a sympathetic face. My story is the story of a man's tragedy. It is the story of a blighted life. It is the story of a woman who could not forgive. It is the story..."

"I have to leave at 8:30," I said, "and if it's the story about the monkey and the coconuts, I've heard it and it's vulgar."

"Sympathy," he said. "A man who has suffered the tragedy that I have asks only for a little sympathy."

"Let your days be full of joy," I said and I was pretty bucked about it too because I'd heard this gag only the night before. The timing was perfect. And it feels good to bewilder someone who is attempting to flummox you. Don't you agree? I continued with the little saying all the way to the punchline.

"Love the child that holds your hand," I said. "Let your wife delight in your embrace. For these alone are the concerns of man." 

I may have paraphrased the little thing but I was confident that I'd non-plussed him anyway. But it wasn't so. Perhaps a quote from Wicked might have had more impact.

"I have no children," he said, "and I've lost the woman who means all the world to me."

I knew he'd led me to the top of the slippery slope and immediate steps were required to avoid disaster. 

"Listen," I said.

"Sure," he said taking a sip of his coffee.

"I walk the face of the earth like an ant walks on the surface of water," I began.

"Do ants walk on water," he asked?

I raised a hand as this was no time for side issues.

"As if the slightest misstep might send me straight through the surface and into the depths below. Not the depths of the ocean but the innermost depths of my mind."

At this point, I paused to look him hard in the eye and tap my finger on the side of my head. 

"It's dark and scary in there," I said.

"What's so scary about it?"

"I'll tell you," I said. "Just yesterday, I was thinking about the rising tide of heinous skulduggery and political weasel-osity in the nearby kingdom of the United States. I was thinking about how the people living there need more compassion and goodwill."

He nodded and his face wore the expression of someone considering my comments to the fullest extent of consideration.

"And as I mused on those thoughts," I said, "a cargo van of grief and anger came careening around a corner in my mind and plowed through a row of garbage cans. The driver came out swinging and shouting..."

"Hmm," he said, you don't see that every day--almost as rare as Taylor showing up at a Chief's game during an Eras tour. But so what?"

"That driver was me," I said.

"Ah," he said. And then placing a hand on my arm, and looking at his phone, he said, "Sorry, gotta go. I have a 9:00 appointment and it's almost 8:30 now."

He walked away and left me wishing that I had closing remarks for situations like this. I used to wish people a nice Mayan apocalypse on such occasions, but that ship sailed and is long forgotten. I need to come up with something original and catchy.

Point of No Return

My story is a simple one and one that’s all too common. The whole thing can be condensed into two words—"I drank." 

What It Was Like

  When I was only a boy, my father and uncle used to give me a small taste of beer, but it tasted wicked. I didn't like it. I did like the feeling it gave me--feeling as though I was breaking a taboo but with permission.

 

My story isn’t one of a teenager gone bad. I stayed sober through high school. My downfall began when I joined the hometown boys in college.

I was one of those young men you read about in the Hollywood tabloids. I had no self-confidence. I felt that everyone around me knew something about life that I’d somehow missed in the instruction booklet.

And then I was introduced to the awful power of all-out, uncontrolled ridicule. Young college men are a hard-living lot, wild and reckless. They engaged in keg parties, drunken dances, and X-rated movies, and they laughed at me when I chose to stay in my apartment listening to The Supremes and Simon and Garfunkle.

Eventually, I gave in to their raucous urging. The next time I was offered a drink I accepted. Immediately, they treated me as a member of their club. They initiated me with a complimentary nickname. 

The Jack Daniels and Coca-Cola we drank made me drunk, but the sudden popularity and their wholesale acceptance of me completely intoxicated me.

How vividly I can recall the next morning! Those merry faces that had partied with me the night before, and the slaps on the back convinced me that I was the life and soul of the party. It was too much for me to ignore.

I was addicted to the attention that I found only while drinking.

At first, considerations of health didn’t trouble me. I was young and strong, and my constitution seemed immune to negative effects. Gradually, I began to feel threatened. I was losing my grip. I had trouble concentrating on my work. I became anxious. In what seems like a very short time, I lost everything. My car, my home, my job, my family. 

Life had become a wicked taskmaster.

What Happened

Eventually, I met a man. I’m not sure how it happened, but it doesn’t matter. All that does matter is that I met him and he knew something about my problem.

"If I am to help you," he said, "you must tell me everything. Hold no secrets.” Our long conversations gave me hope, and he provided a list of instructions for living life on life's terms. I did everything on that list, and life began to improve.

I soon found other people who suffered from problems similar to those that plagued me. These few had also met someone who gave them a long list of instructions, and we joined together to help each other stay on the straight and narrow.

Then, I met Ms. Wonder, the girl who transformed me. She was the opposite of me in temperament and outlook. We did share an early life full of difficulty but under different circumstances. 

What It’s Like Now

We began to see a lot of each other, and our differences began to morph into something like a musical comedy.

I remember being so overjoyed at the prospect of spending time with her that I often sang, “Oh Joy! Oh Pep!" Maybe not that song. I sang a lot of happy songs that all carried the message of "Oh, Happy Day!" As we spent more time together, our acquaintance ripened, and one night I asked her out to see “Moonstruck.”

I look at that moment as the happiest of my life. We had time to spare before the movie started, and we drove round and round Clear Lake talking of this and that. Eventually, we parked, and when I couldn’t unbuckle my safety belt, she declared, “And I thought you were a live one!"

Our time together that night began my transformation. I experienced joy for the first time without alcohol.

It was hard at first. Something inside me tried to pull me back to my cravings, but I resisted the impulse. Always with her divinely sympathetic encouragement and her mysterious ability to work wonders, I gradually acquired a taste for life on life’s terms. 

We’ve been together for a lifetime, and the joy increases daily. Someday, I hope to show her how grateful I am for all she's done.

I've Been Chosen

Mornings I walk through Brunswick Forest where I enjoy the magic of a summer day. The limitations of yesterday are forgotten and my surroundings are an earthly paradise. The lagoons shine like pools of silver, rabbits dart in and out of the rhodendrons, and as far as the eye can see contented dogs lead their administrative assistants along the trails.

I walk with purpose and assurance because I'm fully engaged in my new role of Extra. Remember the recent discussion with Ms. Wonder about my purpose in life? If you missed it, I'd look it up if I were you. But if you're short of time, the gist is that I'm not the star of the show. I'm not even the humorous best friend. I'm simply an extra who is asked to do nothing more than show up on time and perform the prescribed activities.

Many of you, my followers that is, are asking why I no longer collect soul vessels. I understand your concern, what with the prophecy in the Big Book of Death about the Underworld Darkness getting all uppity and rising to take over the Above. 

Yes, it's an alarming prophecy, I'm not denying it, but things got so out of hand with so many soul vessels going uncollected, that I finally had to face the truth; the job is far too big for the few of us that are left.

Once I accepted that we were all doomed and nothing to be done about it, I became depressed like the dickens and my anxiety levels equaled that of the cat in the adage. I'm sure you feel it too.

I spoke to my therapist about it and now she's depressed. And Princess Amy makes it even worse. Every time I check in with her, I find her with eyes the size of dinner plates, wringing her hands and shouting, Run for your life!

Fortunately, I found an article in Vanity Fair, written by P.G. Wodehouse, my virtual mentor and spiritual guide. The article, entitled, The Physical Culture Peril, concerns the mistake of valuing physical reality over spiritual.

I suppose that's what the piece is about. I haven't actually read it; I skimmed it and read the pertinent parts. Mr. Wodehouse, or Plum as his friends call him, convinced me to order a small, illustrated booklet that would provide instructions for escaping the peril mentioned above.

After reading the booklet, an event of synchronicity led me to Christoper Moore's book, Dirty Job, where he described the activity of the main character. That description introduced me to the true role that I'm meant to perform.

And now I'm a different man. Little by little I have immersed myself into the new job. Now I smile at everyone I meet and offer a hearty Good morning. 

If I’m addressed by someone on my rounds, instead of trying to get away as quickly as possible, I listen attentively and make courteous replies, in short, I’m agreeable as all get out. And although I don’t make a habit of it, I've been known to slap backs and shake hands. I feel better for it and so do they.

There are exceptions. Aren't there always? Not everyone is appreciative of my new behavior. Some people ignore me or give me hard looks and, naturally, my new behavior has lost me a few friends.

And so there you have it. The full gist of the thing. My new calling and I like it.

Isn't it incredible how these metaphysical principles are manifested? I mean, the book, Dirty Job, was the source of my mistaken belief that I was a Soul Merchant. Now that same book has shown me that in fact, I'm Born to be Mild. And that's why I have dedicated myself to spreading goodness and light everywhere I go.

Will it save us from the prophecy in the Big Book of Death? No. But it makes me and the people I meet feel a little bit better about darkness taking over. We still may one day find ourselves wishing that we were dead but at least now we can hope for a good day for it.

Question Everything Like a Fox

I sometimes surprise people with my picture of reality and my version of the truth. The reason, I believe, is that I was taught to see life through the eyes of my father and through the lessons taught to me by Fox.

“Question everything.” 

~~ Euripides (480 BCE - 406 BCE)

I was reluctant to go so far as to say I'm fortunate to have been guided by Trickster, and yet to say anything less would be misleading. 

“Re-examine all that you have been told.” 

~~ Walt Whitman (1819 - 1892)

The Trickster is recognized in many different disguises in cultures around the world. For example, he is Hare to my Creek and Cherokee ancestors; Fox to my Celtic ancestors of Britain and Britanny. He is Coyote to the Indians of the American southwest and he's Anansi, the Spider, in Ashanti and Yoruba cultures of West Africa. 

No matter what form he takes, he’s always a thief and a liar; he's the patron of wanderers and the lost; and in his most interesting form, to me at least, he guides the souls of the dead into eternity.

"Red hair, in my opinion, sir, is very dangerous."

~~P.G. Wodehouse, Very Good Jeeves

The last time I journeyed to the spirit world with Fox was in that automobile accident a few years back. It wasn't really Death who brought the image of Death's Doors, but Fox in the guise of Ferryman, the one who transports the dead across the River Styx in Greek mythology. 

That's Fox for you, always irreverent and joking around no matter what he’s up to.

 

"It's always when a fellow is feeling braced 

with things in general that Fate sneaks up 

behind him with a bit of lead piping.

~~ P.G. Wodehouse, Jeeves and the Unbidden Guest

Being shepherded through life by Trickster isn’t always a satisfying experience but it isn’t as bad as you might think. Yes, he is subversive, which is always unpopular, and his schemes sometimes backfire landing him and me in the soup. 

The short of being tutored by Fox is that I'm not always good and noble. I may be the hero of my personal life story but I have my off moments. Still, my virtual mentor, P.G. Wodehouse wryly observed: 

"Everything in life that's fun is either immoral, illegal, or fattening." 

“Teachers hated to see me in class because they knew I'd question everything.” 

~~ Carl Jirlds (1922 - 1992)

Fox, I believe was also my father's personal guide and that's probably why I'm so much like my dad. Dad taught me to question everything rather than follow blindly along with the crowd. He was the kind of shepherd who nudged his son off the familiar path and out into the wilderness because that’s where our own true path is found.

My feelings for Fox are very much like the feelings I have for my father. I admire and respect them both but have a healthy little bit of distrust at the same time. It's a difficult dichotomy to explain, probably because I don't really understand it myself. 

“The important thing is not to stop questioning.” 

~~ Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)

I can't imagine a more fitting spirit guide for someone on the path of self-improvement, nor can I imagine a more fitting father for a son, but I confess that I'm biased because for better or for worse, I've become fond of them both.

I haven't seen Fox since the day of that traffic accident. I've searched without success but eventually accepted that he's gone, at least for a while. I think of him often but have little hope that I'll see him again. After a lifetime of getting used to his tricks and lies, I find that I miss him.

My new guides have no shortcomings. I am grateful for their help, their guidance, and their compassion. But I miss you, Fox. I miss your tricks and your lies, and mostly I miss your laughter.

Be well, my friend. I will always remember our time together and I will never stop looking for you.

Emmy Grammy Oscar Tony

My book agent (the one currently residing in a recovery day spa) is urging me to finish Out Of The Blue because he's working with a playwright to turn it into a stage production. He's telling me that he thinks my book could be the first mental health memoir to win the coveted EGOT. One day I might have a story right up there with Wicked!

But I'm having trouble working on it because Ms. Wonder thinks the idea has about as much chance of coming true as an AI machine has of becoming aware of itself. When Ms. Wonder isn't behind me, the motivation that drives great doings is lacking by the bucket load.

To be completely transparent, which is one of the prime directives of this blog, I must confess that I keep being distracted by shiny objects, and by shiny objects I mean things like soap bubbles, or trips to the beach, or hanging out in coffee cafes.

And so, to resolve the main issue and deliver the goods to my agent, I've decided that my only option is to stay at home until I finish the book. 

Wonder doesn't think much of this idea either. She thinks that isolation is a risk to my sanity, my sobriety, and my physical health. And there you have it, just one damned thing to deal with after another.

She encourages me to hang out with friends. The idea is that friends will keep me on the straight and narrow. Hmmm?

Past experience has taught me, and I'm sure you'll agree, that it's always best to consider Wonder's advice. And so this afternoon, I asked a few of the inner circle to meet me in Southport where I could work on the book while they solved the world's problems.

And that's how I ended up here in Ocean Isle writing this blog. I know! But before you jump to the conclusions that you're about to leap to, let me explain. You see the 80's countdown of hits from 1983 was on the radio and I didn't want to miss the top 10. Understandable, don't you agree? Then as soon as the countdown finished, Rick Springfield's show started and the topic of the week was Women in Rock.

When that show ended, I turned around and started back toward Southport, and then, damn it! A new coffee shop that opened in Bolivia and not just a new shop but the one and only craft coffee emporium in Brunswick County.

I think you understand. Not my fault. The Universe operates a vast conspiracy against me. And not any old mundane, run-of-the-mill conspiracy but one of multilevel intricacies and legions of agents. I'm sure of it.

Another day in paradise but another day that fell short of expectations. Will it ever be different? Who knows? Not me. Still, I'll never give up and I hope you don't give up on me. Keep coming back because anything could happen and when something does, I'd like you to be here to enjoy it with me. And don't forget to leave a comment.