We'll Sing In The Sunshine
A song written and recorded by Gale Garnett in 1964.
In the song, a woman tells the person who loves her that they will be together for a time but then she will go away. She promises him that he will always treasure their time together.
We first met Uma at a pet adoption fair promoted by Best Friends, the adoption agency. Her name then was Reeces, because her fur was dappled and spotted, and brought to mind the popular candy known as Reeces Pieces.
My heart went out to her when I recognized that solitary nature. You see, I too am a lot like her. I prefer my own company to that of others although I've learned to pretend well enough to fool most people.
I knew right away that she was going to come live with me and that I was going to give her the best life possible.
About a week later, with all the paperwork and veterinary exams complete, the Best Friends reps brought Uma to our home.
I'll never forget the sight when her carrier was placed on the floor across the room from Ms. Wonder and me. The rep opened the door of the carrier and Uma came dancing out and crossed the room to introduce herself.
When I say that she danced across the floor, I mean that she seemed to be floating inches above the carpet and moving to music that only she could hear. She never stopped dancing to that music for the next 19 years.
She stole my heart in that moment. Forever more when I spoke of her, I told people that she was my heart.
Not long after coming to live with us, she stopped eating. I was inconsolable. Her veterinarian, Dr. Barbara, told me to leave her in the cat hospital for the rest of the day so that she could work with her.
For the remainder of that day, I thought of nothing else but Uma. I stayed in a bookstore across the street from Durham Cat Hospital, so that I could get to her within minutes.
I'm not a religious person, but when someone you love is in trouble, you do everything you can to help. That includes praying. And I prayed. I didn't know who or what the prayers should be directed to, so I just prayed to the sky. Continuously.
Toward the end of the day, Dr. Barbara called me and told me that Uma was eating and that the exam and lab work were normal. I felt a gratitude so deep that I doubt I've ever felt a deeper.
When we were back home, I never left her presence for the next few days. But during that time, Uma told me that for the remainder of our time together,
We'll sing in the sunshine
And we'll laugh every day.
We'll sing in the sunshine
But then I'll be on my way.
And she was right. She was the delight of our lives for almost nineteen years. In truth, she wasn't the most loving of our five cats. She wasn't the sweetest. She wasn't the least trouble. But even though she never weighed more than ten pounds, she took up most of the space in our hearts.
During those years, she told us that,
I'll sing to you each morning.
I'll kiss you every night.
But don't cling to me
Because too soon I'll be out of sight.
We said our final goodbyes a few weeks ago, but I can't seem to let her go. And just as she made clear so many years ago when she was only a kitten,
When our time together is ended
And I have gone away
You'll think of me every day, and you'll say,
We sang in the sunshine.
We laughed every day.
We sang in the sunshine
And then you went away.
Thank you, Uma Maya, Queen of Cats and Empress of Chatsford Hall. I hope that when it's my time to go away, you will be the first to greet me on the Rainbow Bridge. Until that time,
I promise to sing in the sunshine
And remember you fondly every day.